There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
ROLLO MAYThe relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
More Rollo May Quotes
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
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Creativity arises out of the tension between spontaneity and limitations, the latter (like the river banks) forcing the spontaneity into the various forms which are essential to the work of art or poem.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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The word courage comes from the same stem as the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.” Thus just as one’s heart, by pumping blood to one’s arms, legs, and brain enables all the other physical organs to function.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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It is dangerous to know, but it is more dangerous not to know.
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Courage is required not only in a person’s occasional crucial decision for his own freedom, but in the little hour-to-hour decisions which place the bricks in the structure of his building of himself into a person who acts with freedom and responsibility.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.
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A mien which seems to say, “You are looking at somebody now.” For this inner sense of worth that comes with being in love does not seem to depend essentially on whether the love is returned or not.
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Mass communication–wonder as it may be technologically and something to be appreciated and valued–presents us wit a serious daner, the danger of conformism, due to the fact that we all view the same things at the same time in all the cities of the country. (p. 73)
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
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