The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
ROLLO MAY
ROLLO MAY
Rollo May on conformity
Rollo May103 quotes“The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.”
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Rollo MayRollo May Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
Rollo MayRollo May Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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Rollo MayRollo May There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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