There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
ROLLO MAYThere is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
More Rollo May Quotes
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The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
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Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. … One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one’s death.
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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Heroes are necessary in order to enable the citizens to find their own ideals, courage and wisdom in the society. The hero carries our hopes, our aspirations, our ideals, our beliefs. In the deepest sense the hero is created by us; he or she is born collectively as our own myth.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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Life comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
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This personal freedom to think and feel and speak authentically and to be conscious of so doing is the quality that distinguishes us as human.
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Real freedom is the ability to pause between stimulus and response, and in that pause, choose.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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