Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
ROLLO MAYIt is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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This is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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It is an old and ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way; and we grasp more fiercely at research, statistics, and technical aids in sex when we have lost the values and meaning of love.
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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The hallmark of courage in our age of conformity is the capacity to stand on one’s own convictions – not obstinately or defiantly
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Courage is required not only in a person’s occasional crucial decision for his own freedom, but in the little hour-to-hour decisions which place the bricks in the structure of his building of himself into a person who acts with freedom and responsibility.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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