Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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More Rollo May Quotes
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Heroes are necessary in order to enable the citizens to find their own ideals, courage and wisdom in the society. The hero carries our hopes, our aspirations, our ideals, our beliefs. In the deepest sense the hero is created by us; he or she is born collectively as our own myth.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one’s death.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Forge in the smithy of your soul.
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Ecstasy is the accurate term for the intensity of consciousness that occurs in the creative act.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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Religion is whatever the individual takes to be his ultimate concern. One’s religious attitude is to be found at that point where he has a conviction that there are values in human existence worth living and dying for.
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In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.
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Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.
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Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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Mass communication–wonder as it may be technologically and something to be appreciated and valued–presents us wit a serious daner, the danger of conformism, due to the fact that we all view the same things at the same time in all the cities of the country. (p. 73)
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