The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
ROLLO MAYThere is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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Courage is necessary to make being and becoming possible.
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A mien which seems to say, “You are looking at somebody now.” For this inner sense of worth that comes with being in love does not seem to depend essentially on whether the love is returned or not.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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Creativity is the process of bringing something new into being. Creativity requires passion and commitment. It brings to our awareness what was previously hidden and points to new life. The experience is one of heightened consciousness: ecstasy.
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Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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Artists love to immerse themselves in chaos in order to put it into form, just as God created form out of chaos in Genesis. Forever unsatisfied with the mundane, the apathetic, the conventional, they always push on to newer worlds.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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There is nobody who totally lacks the courage to change.
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Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
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We define religion as the assumption that life has meaning. Religion, or lack of it, is shown not in some intellectual or verbal formulations but in one’s total orientation to life.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
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