This is what makes us human. But it comes with a costly price: the wound of mortality. Our existence is forever shadowed by the knowledge that we will grow, blossom, and, inevitably, diminish and die.
IRVIN D. YALOMThe therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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There are borderlines and there are borderlines. Labels do violence to people. You can’t treat the label; you have to treat the person behind the label. (17)
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Does a being who requires meaning find meaning in a universe that has no meaning?
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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