At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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