You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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