What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWilliam James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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