As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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