Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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