Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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