We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPerhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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