We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
ALAIN DE BOTTONPerhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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