We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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