Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
ALAIN DE BOTTONBeing content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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