For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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