What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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