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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.

Alain de Botton

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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Destiny Life Long Romantic Stronger
To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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