Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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