It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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