Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTaking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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