Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTaking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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