Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAll tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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