We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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