One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost good thinking has its origin in fear.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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