To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost good thinking has its origin in fear.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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