Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost good thinking has its origin in fear.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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