It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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