The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
ALAIN DE BOTTONto design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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