The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTrue love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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