The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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