Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSocial media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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