The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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We are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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