The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
ALAIN DE BOTTONFeeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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