In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest – in all its ardour and paradoxes – than our travels.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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