If your boundary training consists only of words, you are wasting your breath. But if you ‘do’ boundaries with your kids, they internalize the experiences, remember them, digest them, and make them part of how they see reality.
HENRY CLOUDWe need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
More Henry Cloud Quotes
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There’s no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
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Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.
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When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Everything has seasons, and we have to be able to recognize when something’s time has passed and be able to move into the next season. Everything that is alive requires pruning as well, which is a great metaphor for endings.
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If people are really narcissistic or have a need to be seen as more than they really are, or to be admired as having it all together, then they cannot be followed and trusted by others.
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We need rest not just so we feel better. We need rest for actual creation of what we’re going to need the next day.
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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Love can only exist where freedom and responsibility are operating.
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The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari – like they’re trying to land the trophy.
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Just as we leave the effects of our work behind in results, we leave the effects of our interactions with people in their hearts, minds, and souls.
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The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
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Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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Because dating is a human exercise, it can be a tightrope fraught with danger. You will be dating imperfect people, and some of them are more imperfect than others. In addition, you are not perfect either, so that complicates the picture.
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