Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
TARA BRACHThere are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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But this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
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Relaxation is the doorway to both wisdom and compassion.
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As we free ourselves from the suffering of ‘something is wrong with me, ‘we trust and express the fullness of who we are.’
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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When we’re awake in our bodies and sense, the world comes alive. Wisdom, creativity, and love are discovered as we relax and awaken through our bodies.
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Longing, felt fully, carries us to belonging.
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Extend an act of kindness each day. No one has to know. It can be a smile, reassuring words, a small favor – without expecting something in return.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns.
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Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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With mindfulness training we are able to recognize when we get lost in our mental dramas, and bring a kind and nonreactive presence to the feelings that accompany them.
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