Meditation isn’t really about getting rid of thoughts, it’s about changing the pattern of grasping on to things, which in our everyday experience is our thoughts.
PEMA CHODRONThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions.
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When things fall apart in your life, you feel as if your whole world is crumbling. But actually it’s your fixed identity that’s crumbling. And as Chögyam Trungpa used to tell us, that’s cause for celebration.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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The greatest obstacle to connecting with our joy is resentment.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
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Feel the feelings and drop the story.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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We have a choice. We can spend our whole life suffering because we can’t relax with how things really are, or we can relax and embrace the open-endedness of the human situation, which is fresh, unfixated, unbiased.
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