I can’t overestimate the importance of accepting ourselves exactly as we are right now, not as we wish we were or think we ought to be.
PEMA CHODRONThe second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Whatever happens in your life, joyful or painful, do not be swept away by reactivity. Be patient with yourself and don’t lose your sense of perspective.
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To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again.
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Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing.
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The second noble truth says that this resistance is the mechanism of what we call ego, that resisting life causes suffering.
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As our kindness for ourselves grows, so does our kindness for other people.
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Resisting what is happening is a major cause of suffering.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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If someone comes along and shoots an arrow into your heart, it’s fruitless to stand there and yell at the person. It would be much better to turn your attention to the fact that there’s an arrow in your heart.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
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The essence of generosity is letting go. Pain is always a sign that we are holding on to something – usually ourselves.
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Usually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
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If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.
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Let your curiosity be greater than your fear.
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