Iyanla Vanzant on acceptance
Iyanla Vanzant71 quotes“You do not have to love what is going on in your life, but you must accept that it, whatever it is, is going on. As long as you do not accept reality, you are powerless to define the role you will play.”
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Every day is your day if you claim it. If you wait for somebody else to make it for you, you’re going to be disappointed.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Criticism does not make you smarter or better than the one you are criticizing. In fact, the stuff you are critical of in others is the same stuff you don’t like about yourself.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you make a decision and a commitment to do something good for yourself, it is like dropping a pebble in a pond. It has a rippling effect. The firmer the decision, the stronger the frequency and wider the range of things that will be reached.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant It is not your duty or responsibility to change the minds of other people. The nature of their thinking is advanced or limited by their experience. In your presence, they have an opportunity to learn about you and, perhaps, to grow.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Just for today, allow yourself to embrace all that you are every moment. Know that you are a vessel of light. Allow yourself to release all doubts about your ability, the mistakes of the past, the fear of the future.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Acceptance means that you know, regardless of what happened, that there is something bigger than you at work. It also means you know that you are okay and that you will continue to be okay.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you’re the strong one, people don’t give you permission to hurt.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant You have to meet people where they are, and sometimes you have to leave them there.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant If you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. What you don’t do can create the same regrets as the mistakes you make.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant If you should encounter angry or unkind actions today, take a deep breath, reach deep within and greet the lack of love with love.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant Life will let you get away with something for a while, but sooner or later, you will pay the price. Everything you do in life causes the effects that you experience. When you get the bill, be prepared to pay.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant I am the one I have been looking for.
Iyanla VanzantIyanla Vanzant When you don’t show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you’re not. Then when they find out who you are, that’s when they leave.
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My mission, should I choose to accept it, is to find peace with exactly who and what I am. To take pride in my thoughts, my appearance, my talents, my flaws and to stop this incessant worrying that I can’t be loved as I am.
Anais NinAnais Nin Always fall in with what you’re asked to accept. Take what is given, and make it over your way. My aim in life has always been to hold my own with whatever’s going. Not against: with.
Robert FrostRobert Frost Trust that which gives you meaning and accept it as your guide.
Carl JungCarl Jung The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves.
William ShakespeareWilliam Shakespeare Optimism can keep a fool from accepting failure.
Ernest HemingwayErnest Hemingway People love to admit they have bad handwriting or that they can’t do math.
George CarlinGeorge Carlin Every great movement in the world starts with a tiny group of people who simply refuse to accept a situation.
Richard BransonRichard Branson History will never accept difficulties as an excuse.
John F. KennedyJohn F. Kennedy
