It is not your duty or responsibility to change the minds of other people. The nature of their thinking is advanced or limited by their experience. In your presence, they have an opportunity to learn about you and, perhaps, to grow.
IYANLA VANZANTWhen was the last time you thanked you for always being there for you? Self appreciation soothes an aching soul.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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You have a right to your thoughts and feelings. Your feelings are always valid.
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I am the one I have been looking for.
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We set the standard of how we want to be treated. Our relationships are reflections of the relationships we have with ourselves.
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If you really want to live your life to the fullest and realize your greatest potential, you must be willing to run the risk of making some people mad. People may not like how you do it, but these people are not living your life. You are!
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Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
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Speak and live in simple sentences. Bring closure- put a period to- those experiences that you don’t want to carry on forever and ever. Use commas in those places where you’re still growing and use exclamation points at the end of every lesson.
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The only thing that goes on in your life is what your allow to go on in your life.
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When your life is working there will be an absence of drama.
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Instead of running from what you don’t want, walk with commitment toward what you desire. Focus on where you are going rather than being obsessed with where you have been.
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If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
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People may not like what you do, people may not like how you do it, but these people are not living your life. You are!
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Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
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You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
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When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
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Challenges come so we can grow and be prepared for things we are not equipped to handle now.
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