Iyanla Vanzant on fear
Iyanla Vanzant71 quotes“Fear wears so many clever disguises it is virtually impossible to always recognize it. Fear disguises itself as the need to be somewhere else, doing something else, not knowing how to do something or not needing to do something.”
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