When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
IYANLA VANZANT
Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.
More Iyanla Vanzant Quotes
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When you can tell the story and it doesn’t bring up any pain, you know it is healed.
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Just for today, allow yourself to embrace all that you are every moment. Know that you are a vessel of light. Allow yourself to release all doubts about your ability, the mistakes of the past, the fear of the future.
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You set the standards for how you will be treated. People will treat you the exact way you treat yourself. So be good to you. Take time for yourself. Rest. Play. Shower yourself with affection, support, and gifts.
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With all things in life, we do not get what we ask for, we get what we expect.
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Every day is your day if you claim it. If you wait for somebody else to make it for you, you’re going to be disappointed.
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Gratitude is like a magnet; the more grateful you are, the more you will receive to be grateful for.
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If you don’t ask for what you need, the need will keep getting bigger.
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Love people enough to tell them the truth and respect them enough to trust that they can handle it.
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When you don’t show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you’re not. Then when they find out who you are, that’s when they leave.
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Life will let you get away with something for a while, but sooner or later, you will pay the price. Everything you do in life causes the effects that you experience. When you get the bill, be prepared to pay.
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When you continue to give without receiving, the only thing you are proving is that you know how to be taken advantage of.
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If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
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When we have peace in our hearts and minds, we draw peace into our lives.
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Everybody does not have to like you. That is not their job. Liking you is not anyone’s purpose in life except yours.
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Everything we experience-no matter how unpleasant-comes into our lives to teach us something.
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Sometimes you have to lose everything in order to gain yourself.
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