Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
TUTU DESMONDWe are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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