Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
TUTU DESMONDWe are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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