In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
TUTU DESMONDMuch depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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