If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
TUTU DESMONDIf you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Give a man a fish and feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime. Teach a man to cycle and he will realize fishing is stupid and boring.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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Out of the cacophony of random suffering and chaos that can mark human life, the life artist sees or creates a symphony of meaning and order.
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