I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.
TUTU DESMONDWe are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Though wrong gratifies in the moment, good yields its gifts over a lifetime.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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We are made for goodness. We are made for love. We are made for friendliness. We are made for togetherness. We are made for all of the beautiful things that you and I know.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Human beings are actually created for the transcendent, for the sublime, for the beautiful, for the truthful, and all of us are given the task of trying to make this world a little more hospitable to these beautiful things.
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It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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