“Be nice to whites, they need you to rediscover their humanity.”

To protect our children, we must talk to them about rape.

A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.

We need other human beings in order to be human. I am because other people are. A person is entitled to a stable community life, and the first of these communities is the family.

If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.

Forgiveness is truly the grace by which we enable another person to get up, and get up with dignity, to begin anew.

I wish I could shut up, but I can’t, and I won’t.

We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.

We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.

We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.

We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.

I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.

You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.

Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.

We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.

When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.

God is transforming the world now–through us–because God loves us.

It takes two to speak the truth – one to speak and another to hear.

Speak only if it improves upon the silence.

You don’t have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.

Everyone is a moon, and has a dark side which he never shows to anybody.

Circumstances don’t make the man, they only reveal him to himself.

You may forget with whom you laughed, but you will never forget with whom you wept.

The sun shines not on us but in us.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.