We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
TUTU DESMONDReligion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
More Tutu Desmond Quotes
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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We have hardship without becoming hard. We have heartbreaks without being broken.
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Discovering more joy does not, save us from the inevitability of hardship and heartbreak.
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Forgiveness is simply about understanding that every one of us is both inherently good and inherently flawed.
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A person is a person through other persons.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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There is nothing more difficult than waking someone who is only pretending to be asleep.
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We learn from history that we don’t learn from history.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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When we see others as separate, they become a threat. When we see others as part of us, as connected, as interdependent, then there is no challenge we cannot face—together.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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In the end generosity is the best way of becoming more, more, and more joyful.
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If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There’s nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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There comes a point where we need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream to find out why they’re falling in.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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When the missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said “Let us pray.” We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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Language is very powerful. Language does not just describe reality. Language creates the reality it describes.
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A very important but difficult piece of renewing relationships is accepting responsibility for our part in any conflict.
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