Forgiveness does not relieve someone of responsibility for what they have done. Forgiveness does not erase accountability. It is not about turning a blind eye or even turning the other cheek.
TUTU DESMONDA person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Dear Child of God, I am sorry to say that suffering is not optional.
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Much depends on your attitude. If you are filled with negative judgment and anger, then you will feel separate from other people. You will feel lonely.
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The path of joy was connection and the path of sorrow was separation.
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When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognizing the humanity in others.
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You show your humanity by how you see yourself not as apart from others but from your connection to others.
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A person is a person through other persons; you can’t be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.
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Religion is like a knife: you can either use it to cut bread, or stick in someone’s back.
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Differences are not intended to separate, to alienate. We are different precisely in order to realize our need of one another.
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I do believe there are monstrous and evil acts, but I do not believe those who commit such acts are monsters or evil.
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Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.
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We are fragile creatures, and it is from this weakness, not despite it, that we discover the possibility of true joy.
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In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we’ve done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can’t.
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If you are setting out to be joyful you are not going to end up being joyful. You’re going to find yourself turned in on yourself. It’s like a flower. You open, you blossom, really because of other people.
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We are not responsible for what breaks us, but we can be responsible for what puts us back together again. Naming the hurt is how we begin to repair our broken parts.
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We are made for loving. If we don’t love, we will be like plants without water.
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Forgiving is not forgetting; its actually remembering–remembering and not using your right to hit back. Its a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you dont want to repeat what happened.
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Within every hopeless situation and every seemingly hopeless person lies the possibility of transformation
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Dear Child of God, I write these words because we all experience sadness, we all come at times to despair, and we all lose hope that the suffering in our lives and in the world will ever end.
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Transformation begins in you, wherever you are, whatever has happened, however you are suffering. Transformation is always possible.
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We do not heal in isolation. When we reach out and connect with one another—when we tell the story, name the hurt, grant forgiveness, and renew or release the relationship—our suffering begins to transform.
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Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter — you are just there in front of the fire. You don’t have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.
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Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument.
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Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
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We must be ready to learn from one another, not claiming that we alone possess all truth and that somehow we have a corner on God.
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Life of wholeness does not depend on what we experience. Wholeness depends on how we experience our lives
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Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.
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