Happiness lies not in finding what is missing, but in finding what is present.
TARA BRACHBut this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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The two wings of mindfulness and kindness will begin to open the heart to more connection with our world.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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There are some things we can’t choose, but in being present we can choose how we want to relate to them.
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When we relax about imperfection, we no longer lose our life moments in the pursuit of being different and in the fear of what is wrong.
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We’re so used to presenting ourselves and getting approval according to our achievements that it’s difficult to be authentic and trust that we’ll be accepted just as we are.
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Meditation helps us to get out of our thoughts about the future and really be in the present moment.
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Our attitude in the face of life’s challenges determines our suffering or our freedom.
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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Sometimes the easiest way to appreciate ourselves is by looking through the eyes of someone who loves us.
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Radical Acceptance is the willingness to experience ourselves and our lives as it is.
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Mindfulness is a pause – the space between stimulus and response: that’s where choice lies.
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Where desire ends up causing suffering is when it fixates.
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Feeling compassion for ourselves in no way releases us from responsibility for our actions. Rather, it releases us from the self-hatred that prevents us from responding to our life with clarity and balance.
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Telling each other the truth and being who we are, and having space for the other person’s vulnerability in being who they are, allows us to move in a kind of dance together that’s very fluid and graceful.
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