We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
TARA BRACHBut this revolutionary act of treating ourselves tenderly can begin to undo the aversive messages of a lifetime.
More Tara Brach Quotes
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Become a witness to your thoughts.
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Imperfection is not our personal problem – it is a natural part of existing.
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Self-judgment continues to arise – it’s a strong habit – but the fact that I made a conscious commitment to recognize it has helped me stop feeding the story of being unworthy.
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Emotions are the interaction of thoughts and of sensations in the body.
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The most powerful healing arises from the simple intention to love the life within you, unconditionally, with as much tenderness and presence as possible.
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The trance of unworthiness keeps the sweetness of belonging out of reach. The path to “the sweetness of belonging,” is acceptance – acceptance of ourselves and acceptance of others without judgment.
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The muscles used to make a smile actually send a biochemical message to our nervous system that it is safe to relax the flight of freeze response.
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Paying attention is the most basic and profound expression of love.
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People don’t behave in angry ways unless they are feeling stressed and conflicted too.
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Nothing is wrong – whatever is happening is just “real life.”
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When we open to love, we become love.
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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
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If our hearts are ready for anything, we are touched by the beauty and poetry and mystery that fill our world.
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Even a few moments of offering loving kindness can reconnect you with the purity of your loving heart.
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Stopping the endless pursuit of getting somewhere else is the perhaps most beautiful offering we can make to our spirit.
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