If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
SHELEANA AIYANAWhen we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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