Memory is not just the imprint of the past time upon us; it is the keeper of what is meaningful for our deepest hopes and fears.
ROLLO MAYTo love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before
More Rollo May Quotes
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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What anxiety means is it’s as though the world is knocking at your door, and you need to create, you need to make something, you need to do something. I think anxiety, for people who have found their own heart and their own souls, for them it is a stimulus toward creativity, toward courage. It’s what makes us human beings.
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Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
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There is an energy field between humans. And, when we reach out in passion, it is met with an answering passion and changes the relationship forever.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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The hallmark of courage in our age of conformity is the capacity to stand on one’s own convictions – not obstinately or defiantly
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, “This is me and the world be damned!” Leaders have always been the ones to stand against the society – Socrates, Christ, Freud, all the way down the line.
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Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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