The hallmark of courage in our age of conformity is the capacity to stand on one’s own convictions – not obstinately or defiantly
ROLLO MAYThe word courage comes from the same stem as the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.” Thus just as one’s heart, by pumping blood to one’s arms, legs, and brain enables all the other physical organs to function.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Creativity arises out of the tension between spontaneity and limitations, the latter (like the river banks) forcing the spontaneity into the various forms which are essential to the work of art or poem.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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Violence arises not out of superfluity of power but out of powerlessness.
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Suffering is nature’s way of indicating a mistaken attitude or way of behavior, and to the nonegocentric person every moment of suffering is the opportunity for growth. People should rejoice in suffering, strange as it sounds, for this is a sign of the availability of energy to transform their characters.
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Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
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It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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It is amazing how many hints and guides and intuitions for living come to the sensitive person who has ears to hear what his body is saying.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Creativity is neither the product of neurosis nor simple talent, but an intense courageous encounter with the Gods.
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One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
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Apathy adds up, in the long run, to cowardice.
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All people are struggling to be creative in some way, and the artist is the one who has succeeded in this task of life.
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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In my clinical experience, the greatest block to a person’s development is his having to take on a way of life which is not rooted in his own powers.
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Science, Nietzsche had warned, is becoming a factory, and the result will be ethical nihilism.
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When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.
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To believe fully and at the same moment to have doubts is not at all a contradiction: it presupposes a greater respect for truth, an awareness that truth always goes beyond anything that can be said or done at any given moment.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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When I fall in love, I feel more valuable and I treat myself with more care. We have all observed the hesitant adolescent, uncertain of himself, who, when he or she falls in love, suddenly walks with a certain inner assuredness and confidence/
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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Courage is not the absence of despair; it is, rather, the capacity to move ahead in spite of despair.
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