If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
ROLLO MAY
ROLLO MAY
Rollo May on being
Rollo May103 quotes“If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.”
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There is an energy field between humans. And, when we reach out in passion, it is met with an answering passion and changes the relationship forever.
Rollo MayRollo May The acorn becomes an oak by means of automatic growth; no commitment is necessary. The kitten similarly becomes a cat on the basis of instinct. Nature and being are identical in creatures like them. But a man or woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them.
Rollo MayRollo May What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
Rollo MayRollo May When people feel their insignificance as individual persons, they also suffer an undermining of their sense of human responsibility.
Rollo MayRollo May People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
Rollo MayRollo May Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
Rollo MayRollo May Fortunately, however, we no longer have to argue that self -love is not only necessary and good but that it also is a prerequisite for loving others.
Rollo MayRollo May Vanity and narcissism – the compulsive need to be admired and praised – undermine one’s courage, for one then fights on someone else’s conviction rather than one’s own.
Rollo MayRollo May Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
Rollo MayRollo May A dynamic struggle goes on within a person between what he or she consciously thinks on the one hand and, on the other, some insight, some perspective that is struggling to be born.
Rollo MayRollo May The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
Rollo MayRollo May Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration.
Rollo MayRollo May Understanding and love require a wisdom that comes only with age.
Rollo MayRollo May It is amazing how many hints and guides and intuitions for living come to the sensitive person who has ears to hear what his body is saying.
Rollo MayRollo May The word courage comes from the same stem as the French word Coeur, meaning “heart.” Thus just as one’s heart, by pumping blood to one’s arms, legs, and brain enables all the other physical organs to function.
Rollo MayRollo May Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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AstaAsta Late-night conservations, Breathtaking memories, and an endless sky full of unseen dazzling stars. That’s how I want to remember us.
AurthurAurthur Nothing is more terrifying than falling in love.
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Al KooperAl Kooper Theres a lot of churches that hide their dirty laundry under the rug, and I know about that from being in the church 27 years. Oh, yeah.
Al GreenAl Green That’s the way I try to live. I think it’s the only way for human beings at this point in our evolution as souls, where everyone in their lifetime is going through stuff.
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