In order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.
ROLLO MAYI learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
More Rollo May Quotes
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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Many people feel they are powerless to do anything effective with their lives. It takes courage to break out of the settled mold, but most find conformity more comfortable. This is why the opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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To believe fully and at the same moment to have doubts is not at all a contradiction: it presupposes a greater respect for truth, an awareness that truth always goes beyond anything that can be said or done at any given moment.
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The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.
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Creativity is the encounter of the intensively conscious human being with his world.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
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Recall how often in human history the saint and the rebel have be the same person. (p. 35)
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Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
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The first thing necessary for a constructive dealing with time is to learn to live in the reality of the present moment. For psychologically speaking, this present moment is all we have.
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don’t find themselves at all.
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