Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one’s identity as a being of worth and dignity.
ROLLO MAYThe amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence.
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There is an energy field between humans. And, when we reach out in passion, it is met with an answering passion and changes the relationship forever.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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Courage is required not only in a person’s occasional crucial decision for his own freedom, but in the little hour-to-hour decisions which place the bricks in the structure of his building of himself into a person who acts with freedom and responsibility.
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Anxiety is essential to the human condition. The confrontation with anxiety can relieve us from boredom, sharpen the sensitivity and assure the presence of tension that is necessary to preserve human existence.
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The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt but in spite of doubt.
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Beauty is the experience that gives us a sense of joy and a sense of peace simultaneously.
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A dynamic struggle goes on within a person between what he or she consciously thinks on the one hand and, on the other, some insight, some perspective that is struggling to be born.
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To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before
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It is well to remind ourselves that anxiety signifies a conflict, and so long as a conflict is going on, a constructive solution is possible.
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Does not the possibility or the power to do something about the situation at hand confer on one the responsibility to do it?
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People attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day to day.
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This is what makes heroism so important: it reflects our own sense of identity and from this our own heroism is molded.
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Every human being must have a point at which he stands against the culture, where he says, this is me and the damned world can go to hell.
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