One of the few blessings of living in an age of anxiety is that we are forced to become aware of ourselves.
ROLLO MAYMany people feel they are powerless to do anything effective with their lives. It takes courage to break out of the settled mold, but most find conformity more comfortable. This is why the opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it’s conformity.
More Rollo May Quotes
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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The amazing thing about love is that it is the best way to get to know ourselves.
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Courage is the capacity to meet the anxiety which arises as one achieves freedom. It is the willingness to differentiate, to move from the protecting realms of parental dependence to new levels of freedom and integration.
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The ultimate error is the refusal to look evil in the face.
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This is what our society needs – not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can be, that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.
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Freedom is man’s capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves.
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A dynamic struggle goes on within a person between what he or she consciously thinks on the one hand and, on the other, some insight, some perspective that is struggling to be born.
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Courage is not a virtue of value among other personal values like love or fidelity. It is the foundation that underlies and gives reality to all other virtues and personal values. Without courage our love pales into mere dependency. Without courage our fidelity becomes conformism.
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The purpose of psychotherapy is to set people free.
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Depression is the inability to construct a future.
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The essence of being human is that, in the brief moment we exist on this spinning planet, we can love some persons and some things, in spite of the fact that time and death will ultimately claim us all.
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Humor is the healthy way of feeling “distance” between one’s self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one’s problem with perspective.
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What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
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